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Chris Candido's brother, Johnny Candido, made the following statement
in regards to his brother's death.
"I find it only fitting you hear the truth from me about
the death of my bestfriend, brother, and soulmate. Chris died tonight
due to a blood clot brought on by complications with his surgery.
I just want to tell everyone that in their sorrow, find a way to
be happy that he went out the way he wanted to...on top of the world,
blonde, tan, and loving life up until the last minute. Every ounce
of my brother loved this sport, and for him to go out 2 or 3 years
ago wouldn't have been a fitting end to the life of such a determined,
passionate, and benevolent human being. I truly view my brother
as an angel as will all who knew him. Thanks to everyone for all
your positive press, Chris went out a happy man and will forever
live on as the(one of) greatest of all time. He would have had it
no other way."
courtesy usaprowrestling.net
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WFS Column: Chris Candido
Words from Strozilla
written by
Stro formerly The Maestro
Hello everyone. My heartfelt prayers and condolences go out
to the Candido family for the passing of Chris Candido.
I had the pleasure of first meeting Chris and Tammy Sytch several
years ago when I began wrestling for Smoky Mountain Wrestling. Some
of the best matches I had with that territory was with Chris Candido
for the SMW TV title. Remember watching Candido with Bobby Blaze
and Tracy Smothers putting on classics in the ring. Even then, watching
Chris's passion for the business was very inspirational. He was
very driven and truly enjoyed the business. It was great to see
him and Tammy again years later in WCW. Even though our paths have
went different directions over the years, I have always held Chris
and Tammy dear to me. Chris, you have and will always be an inspiration
to me. I will never forget you my friend.
- The Stro
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Sometimes it doesn't pay to sign on. I know that seems strange
to say but as I sit here in shock in a Internet Cafe in Helsinki,
Finland I feel a real sense of sadness.
Just less then five minutes ago I had gotten an email from Fred
Rubenstien with only the text "Because you are my friend, I
never want to write this about you." and I couldn't understand
what he was saying until a fan named Mick instant messaged me and
told me about the death of Chris Candido.
To those that knew Chris if there would have been a story about
him dying two years ago I don't think there would have been anyone
that would have been shocked. But the Chris Candido of 2005 got
his life together and was making such an amazing comeback that it
just doesn't seem fair that his life was taken like this.
I just saw Chris in February at a USA Pro show and it was so
good to talk to him and see the fire back in his eyes. You could
tell that he defeated all the demons that were holding him back
for the last couple years and he had a goal.
Chris was always a great guy to me. From the moment I wrestled
in him in my beginning days of ECW to the last time I saw him he
was just one of the cool guys. A guy that even at his worst couldn't
have a bad match and a guy that you had fun around. Ian Rotten even
joked with me last week that I wear my towel around my waist in
the locker room like Chris did. That is something that both me and
Justin Credible stole from him.
I will miss Chris Candido's humor, his wrestling, and the inspiration
he showed to young and old wrestlers and fans that even though you
are down you can make a comeback. I hope Chris is remembered for
the person he was and that was a guy that loved wrestling, the boys,
and the fans.
Thank you for letting me be a small part of your life Chris.
You will never be forgotten.
-Steve Corino
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"I had the pleasure of meeting Chris, Tammy, and Johnny
on several occasions, in many locker rooms, and god dammit I am
in shock. Chris and Tammy were always a pleasure to talk to and
most of all, to just listen to. Chris is in a better place right
now, my condolences are with Tammy and Johnny, and the rest of his
family and friends. I'm not quite sure what else to say other than
rest in peace brother. The wrestling business is better because
of you being a part of it, and the world itself was blessed to have
you around. So here's a toast to one hell of a super guy, Chris
Candido, you will absolutely be missed."
- Joey Image
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Professional wrestling has lost a friend and super-star performer
in Chris Candido. Chris was only 33 years old. He was an NWA World
Heavyweight Champion. I wrestled Chris in Japan In October of 1994.
I will never forget how he was over with the Japanese people for
his aggressive and daredevil style of wrestling. In the match, Chris
performed his specialty at the time, the hurracarana from the top
rope. It was the pop of the night for the show. They loved him as
did so many others.
Photos of Chris Candido are at www.dory-funk.com.
Thanks to Masa and The Claw for photos.
- Dory Funk Jr.
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I had the honor and privilege to wrestle Chris Candido a few
years ago and he was a class act all the way. He was one of the
most down to earth people you'll ever meet. It's kind of weird and
sad referring to him in the past tense. My family and I send our
heartfelt condolences to the Candido family. Gone but not forgotten.
God Bless,
Eddie (Chino Martinez)
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In March of 1992 I was 17 years old and all I wanted to do was
be a pro wrestler. I was at Mike Sharpes wrestling school one night
traning and in walked a guy who I knew from watching the indies.
He was tan, blonde, in great shape and a great wrestler, we were
all in awe, he was Chris Candito. I wanted to be Chris so bad. I
looked up to him so much. I watched tapes of his NWA and WWA maches
and than when he went to Smokey Mountan I got those tapes also.
His work was flawless and he worked so hard. Every night he worked
so hard.
I wanted to work with him so bad and more importantly I wanted
to get to know him and get advise from him. I had the chance to
do both. When you build someone up in your head so much its hard
for that person to live up to it. Chris surpased both. He was always
a funny positive person and in the ring he just brought it. I have
asked him for advise a hundred times and he always took the time
to tell me.
You had to have your working boots on with him because whether
there was 50 people or 5,000, Chris was stealing the show. The summer
of 1999 I had the pleasure of working with Chris 5 weeks in a row.
I was blow away by the matches we had. They are my favorite I have
ever had. 20 minutes matches with Chris ready to go another 20.
Chis was so much to all of the young guys and everyone in any
locker room. We looked up to him and he was something special. We
all lost a one in a million. Thank you for making me laugh and making
me look like a millon bucks. I told you in the car ride back from
Wildwood that you were my hero, and you didnt believe me.......Im
sure you were to more than just me.
All my love and support to Tammy, Balls, and the entire Candito
Family.
Rest in peace
Mike Maraldo Ace Darling
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It has only been 2 days and I did not sleep last night.
Chris always made me laugh, he was always happy. He is going
to be missed alot.
What sticks out in my mind was in his fanny pack he always carried
pictures of Tammy, and I would think ....WOW they are high school
sweethearts... been together for 15 years and still in love as they
where when they were kids.
How lucky they were to have had that kind of true love.
Missy Hyatt
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I was informed last night that another friend is gone. I tried
to start writing this at the time, but was just unable to type the
first word without breaking down.
I thought if I slept on it that it would be a little easier
today. I was wrong. So F*** it, I have to say good bye to you Chris.
As hard as it is for me, It's just as hard or maybe harder for so
many others who have gotten to know and love you through all of
the years you have been in
our sport.
As I continue to wipe the tears from my face & off this
keyboard, I can only imagine the pain Tammy and the rest of your
family are feeling. I am thinking about the first time we met at
Dennis Corraluzo's show in Jersey
back in 1991. What were we? I guess 19 at the time. I remember how
excited about wrestling we were back then & I remember how you
were just as excited bout wrestling & life when I saw you for
the last time at the hotel in
Orlando Tuesday night.
If you haven't noticed, I am doing alot of remembering right
now. Like the time I worked that guy in Clementon, NJ for Dennis
& Larry Sharpe and he came off the top while I was on the floor,
his bodyweight driving my head into the concrete floor damn near
killing me. I don't remember a thing but he was suppose to do the
job for me, so he picked me up by the "head" rolled me
into the ring and somehow had me pin him as I was out cold.
You all were so pissed...You threw his shit out of the building
and ran him out or something. Like I said, I don't remember anything
until waking up in the hospital. It was You and Tammy, Dennis &
Glenn Ruth I saw
standing over me.
I can't help thinking about the show we ran in Minneapolis with
Dennis. Terry Funk & Hawk, Myself & Sabu, You & Jerry
Lynn, Tazz, Masa Saito. Holy shit what a line up that was &
that was pre ECW days. Well I know alot of people thought Sabu &
I had such a great match, but I have always said the best match
on that show was without a doubt You & Jerry Lynn.
Phyllis Lee was at that show. I believe that was the first time
you met her. I say that because the last thing we did the other
night was exchange numbers, I called yours & you answered it
"Phyllis Lee Fan Club". It was funny to us. If most of
the people reading this are wondering why I am rambling on so much
about such things, it's because I'm writing this to you, not them.
Damn, I could go on and on after nearly 15 years of knowing
each other. It was good to see You and Tammy at the XPW shows a
few years ago. I wasn't too good to see how bad we both were doing
health wise at the time & then I came back to TNA and there
you were looking fresh and excited like You did the first day I
met you in New Jersey in 1991. Chris you did it. You went out with
people remembering a Chris Candido at his best.
Obviously we all will miss you. Please say hello to Curt, Hawk,
Owen, Boss Man, Louie, Joe C., The Great Malenko (who was like a
father to me), and everyone else I haven't named that you are probably
standing right next to. I miss you all very much. Peace be with
you.
Your friend,
Sean Waltman
(courtesy WrestlingObserver.com)
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Another day, the loss of another friend from the wrestling business.
I'm shocked. I'm not shocked. I don't know. I guess I'm shocked
that this time it was Chris.
Chris and I met for the first time, probably in the late 80's, hanging
around Larry Sharpe's Monster Factory. For those who don't know,
he had his foot in the wrestling door by the time he was around
the age of 15. He was an accomplished worker by about the next day.
I considered him a friend from the get-go.
Shortly after that I went to USWA Memphis. When I came back
he went, or maybe visa-versa.
It would have been cool for us to have been there together. We hooked
back up in the early 90's for ICW-IWCCW { Savoldi's } as part of
the "Heart Throb 4", along with Tom Brandi & Flex
Lavender. I loved that gimmick, we all did , with Chris as Mr. Charisma.
The Heart Throb's would come up EVERY time we ever ran into each
other.
Our paths haven't crossed a whole lot, over the last few years,
but Chris would usally call 2 or 3 times a year, just seeing where
the work was, or let me know about his upcoming schedule, in case
I could use him on one of the NCW shows. Ironically, I got an E-Mail
on Wed from Bud Carson, saying he was having Chris and Tammy in
for a daytime autograph session on May 21, in Allentown. That is
the same day as the next NCW show in York,Pa. Before I could work
the budget out & check the rest of Chris & Tam's itinerary
for that day to see if they could make the 2 hour transit, I recieved
the horrific and tragic news.
I would have loved to hang out with him just one more time.
You will be sadly & overwhelmingly missed by the entire
pro wrestling community, your family, Tammy, and everyone you've
ever touched.
RIP buddy,
"Dirty Deeds" Darren Wyse
(As posted at www.ncwzone.com)
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Chris Candito 1972-2005
May 1, 2005
I am still coming to grips with this myself, so you will have
to bear with me as I try to honour the memory of a great partner,
opponent, and friend. I was lucky enough to know Chris Candito for
11 years, and some of my fondest memories in this business are of
matches and time spent with him. We first met in 1994 in SMW. My
wife and I lived in the same apartment complex as Chris and Tammy.
We went to movies and the gym together and more importantly had
some of the best times in the ring together. We were reunited again
in ECW where we got to both team and feud with each other, oddly
enough at the same time. We both loved being in the ring together
as we both just wanted to have a great match and have fun (something
I believe we managed to do each night). It was always about entertaining
the crowd and more often than not the boys as well.
Chris loved throwing things in to our matches just to Pop
the Boys. He loved popping the boys so much that I started
taking it upon myself to try to pop him and make him lose his composure
during matches. I could regularly get him with my Tom Prichard/Jimmy
Garvin Hair fussing routine before tying up. I obviously never had
the hair for it, which made it look even more ridiculous, and Chris
would usually have to rush the tie up to help cover up his laughing.
My crowning moment was the night we did a mix tag match at the ECW
Arena with Tammy and Dawn. I did the ring announcing for our match
and laid into them pretty stiff. I cleared everything with them
ahead of time, except one line, which I knew would pop him. I introduced
him hailing from His mother-in-laws house in Spring
Lake, NJ. Chris actually had to turn and bury his face in
his arm on the top turnbuckle he was laughing so hard. Chris actually
was living at his Mother-in-Laws house, which sounds worse
than it really was. She had this huge home and both Chris and Tammy
were always on the road, it made senses but sounded bad, which is
why I used it in the introduction. Nothing was off limits with Chris
and I. It was always about having fun.
The day we won the ECW Tag Team Titles he started just calling
me partner. At first I thought it was because we were a tag team
at the time, but the title stuck and I realized it meant more than
that. We covered a lot of ground he and I and when it came to this
business and being in that ring, we just fit, we were partners.
One of my favourite times in this business, and Id like to
think one of his as well, was the time we were ECW Tag Team Champions
and feuding with each other. We pulled double duty every night,
defending the Tag Titles, and then going straight into a singles
match. A lot of people in the business would have looked at that
program as a nightmare, but we loved it and saw it as the best of
both worlds. We got to tag and wrestle each other, what could be
better than that? While we drifted in and out of touch over the
years we remained close, we remained partners. I dont think
anyone outside the business can understand this but its true.
We went likely 5 years without seeing each other before our last
meeting her in OVW. When I walked into the Davis Arena and saw him,
our faces lit up, we hugged, and he called me partner. We sat around
the whole day telling stories and laughing at all the good times
we had as if we had seen each other yesturday.
Chris once said to me, I need to work with you the rest
of my life. I took this as a huge compliment knowing that
he meant because it was always, fun, easy, and safe. Ive never
forgot him saying that to me, and it always brought a smile to me
face because it reminded me of him and how much fun we had in the
ring together. I just never figured the rest of his life
would be so short. I will remember that line till its my turn
to join him, but Im afraid it will never again bring a smile
to my face.
I will miss you my friend, and remember you fondly. You loved
this business more than anyone I know and it will remember you for
your great contributions.
Lance Storm
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May 2, 2005
In Memory of Chris Candido - Friends remember Candido
I had the tremendous good fortune to meet Chris and Tamara when
I briefly worked with Vince McMahon in what was then the WWF, as
a member of the creative team. (Upon learning of Chriss passing,
and wanting to just express my admiration for him, I am at a loss
to use any other format than the one in which I experienced him-----pro-wrestling----which
is such a limited way to attempt to eulogize his life.
But, that is all I have.)
Most of my career was old school in the pro-wrestling
world, but the same basics that worked then, were still
what I most admired of those newcomers who loved
the business and would do anything within their ability
to contribute and make it better. I related to those who reflected
that attitude----and thus to Sunny & Skip-----but
more, to their hearts as people reflected.
Chris and Tamara, or Sunny and Skip as I knew them with their
ring character were truly a chips off that old
block------and so, like a bright ray of sunshine that penetrated
the darkness!
Their hearts were always open and upbeat-----and I felt they
treated me with such respect----and that they
loved the business-----so that, I looked forward to working
with them. Whatever scenario in which they were participating, they
would first of all, try to contribute suggestions that would make
it better and also, would give it 100% of their efforts selflessly-----making
the big picture of what they were projecting more complete
and worthwhile. Their hearts were totally dedicated to this endeavor.
If attitude is everything----and, I believe it is
key-----then truly, they were everything that one could
desire to have the privilege to work with. I was so privileged for
a very short----way too short----nanosecond of time. That they so
impressed me is testimony to their hearts and character----their
attitudes.
So, in this eulogy, if Chriss heart can be most remembered
as it is in my heart, then truly, he has touched someones
life-----as we all can do. For Tamara, going forward, as my good
friend Jim George the Animal Steele just told her this
morning as we spoke------going forward she had to live her
life for both of them! That is a statement that could be overwhelming
or empowering----he meant it to be empowering.
I am sure Chris would want her to reflect the love they have as
a beacon for others.
As my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ has accepted me in spite
of all the rags of my flesh with His unconditional love, which for
years and years I thought I had lost----and that I was not worthy
of His love----but then, He illuminated for me His merciful grace,
which surpasses all understanding, and can overcome any sin or behavior----and
has allowed me to fully accept His free gift of eternal salvation-----His
love-----and has empowered me to reflect His love
to others-----it was His leading that allowed me to follow-up and
write this letter (and to locate Tamara and call her today.)
May each of you who read this, consider your life, and your
eternal position----and how your lifes testimony
can affect others just as Chriss life has-----so
that your life also continues to empower others.
Chris will be missed------but I will remember him for his smile
and his heart-----and for the brief time our lives crossed paths----until
I see him in heaven.
Sincerely,
Cowboy Bill Watts
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I got the honor of working a lot with Chris these past few months
and he would always take the time to watch my match and talk to
me after about them. I know everyone in the wrestling world has
been touched by Chris and today we have lost a great member of the
wrestling community and a big loss to our wrestling family... Chris,
you will be missed, but your memory will go on forever. Thank you
for the laughs, the stories, and your talent... God Bless you Chris
Candido and thank you for becoming a wrestler and entertaining us
all these years.
- Traci Brooks
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He would wrestle, entertain, and make you laugh for the next
20-30 minutes. He never cared about winning or losing, he only wanted
people to be entertained. He wasn't interested in critics' reviews
or what the internet had to say. He only cared about having the
best, most entertaining match he could possibly have. He would do
it in front of the family-style crowds of the NWS. He would do it
in front of the smart mark crowds of USA Pro/UXW. He would do it
in front of national television audiences in ECW, WWF, WCW, and
TNA. He would do it in front of crowds who knew him and those that
did not. He did it every single time he wrestled and for that, anyone
who wrestled him was honored. Anyone who saw him perform was lucky.
Anyone who knew him was truly blessed. I was lucky to have been
all three. That's the affect Chris had on people. He truly was a
"great worker," a "professional wrestler," but
most importantly, one heck of a human being.
- Pat "Simon Diamond" Kenney
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In my opinion, the greatest shame of this tragedy is that Chris
Candido was one of the people in this business who recognized and
identified his demons and addressed them before it was too late,
only to be taken away from us far too soon. He overcame his demons
and beat his demons. I saw Chris in Puerto Rico at times when he
was battling those demons, but when I first saw him when he debuted
in TNA several months ago, I could not believe it! Chris lost weight,
got back into shape, refocused his attention to wrestling and working,
and most importantly, Chris had beaten those demons that had touched
his life. That is the mark of a true man and a "real"
champion. Chris was, and will continue to be, an inspiration to
me as well as many in wrestling today and tomorrow.
- Chris "Abyss" Parks
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My thoughts and prayers go out to Tammy, his family, and his
close friends. I didn't know Chris very well before TNA, but in
the short time I knew him I didn't realize how funny, well-respected,
and what an all-around good person he was. Not only did I become
a friend, I became a fan of his personality and his work. In the
locker room, no matter what kind of mood you were in, he always
found a way to make you laugh or smile. Chris, you made your family
and friends proud because you changed your life for the better.
I know you're in heaven smiling down at us
we miss you and
we'll see you soon. Take care buddy.
- Sonny Siaki
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Like Brett Schwan, I first met Chris and Tammy back at the John
Arezzi convention. I was the "kid" that was hired by John
to take the pictures for any fans who wanted a snapshot with the
Dynamic Duo of Smokey Mountain Wrestling. Sitting with both of these
fine people that day was truly a divine appointment. Let me explain.
I was hired by John at 16 years of age. Arezzi, always received
credit for being the first guy who "broke me in". I didn't
know of Chris and Tammy. Never heard of them until that day. Back
then, wrestling was not as covered as it is today...no internet,
and very little "sheets". Kayfabe was still going strong,
and there wasn't an autograph session every other weekend in the
NY area. Indy level wrestling was something you had to really search
out and research...which usually meant you had to buy videos from
people, or listen to the great "Pro Wrestling Spotlight"
which was John Arezzi's hot radio program, that Vince Russo also
was also involved with. To any wrestling "insider" at
that time, this was the show to listen too as all the real "behind
the scenes" facts were revealed.
Back to Chris and Tammy...
I was stationed as there Personal Asst. for that day, and took care
of there every need...one that included working there table for
them with the camera. Anyone who has a picture taken with Chris
and Tammy from that convention odds are, the shot was taken by a
16 year old Bobby Riedel. Which if you read in between the lines,
I took countless hundreds pictures and spent a great deal of time
with these two people over that weekend. What caused an immediate
bond to take place between Tammy and I was the fact her dad had
just passed away. She was a trooper. Although she was sad and down,
she did not disappoint the fans. She stood there and posed and signed
pics for all her fans...and soon to be fans. She had every right
not to go to the convention, but she did anyway. She showed how
strong she was, and she pulled through that entire weekend.
Chris, Tammy, and I got to spend a lot of quality time that weekend
as Chris and I were both "cheering" Tammy on. Chris would
care for Tammy by holding her hand, consoling her, talking to her
straight, and just showing the love she needed at that time. When
Chris would be pulled away from time to time for media interviews
or pictures, Tammy would open up to me and would share with me her
worries, sadness, and grief. It was a time that God ordained to
use for down the road. From that day on, Chris and Tammy entrusted
me with many things, and a strong friendship grew.
Weeks before they were to start at Titan Sports, the two told me
about and they were very excited. I remember Chris..."Bobby
this is it. This is a break I won't let pass by. I can't wait".
He was like a little boy...To me, it was like watching a little
boy obtain his dreams. He was such a hard worker. His matches with
the Dirty White boy were legendary. Jim "Corny" Cornette
did what he had to do to help them along, and the two were forever
indebted.
A funny thing happened soon after. They got their start with the
WWE around the same time I was fortunate enough to build a relationship
with the McMahons. Well, in just a brief time, the three of us would
reunite once again in the many places the WWE ran. Up and down the
East Coast we would go...fighting traffic, avoiding the legions
of fans that would spot them in a car, and figuring out ways to
get around "obstacles" that only the road brings. It was
quite the experience. However, it was always Chris that kept us
laughing. He would be hot just like Tammy and I were, but he always
brought the comedy aspect into it...sometimes in a way where I don't
believe he was trying to be funny.
For example, here we were...it was some big "loop" in
the metro area, and up through New England....and at the time, "Sunny"
had left the "Bodydonnas", and sided with the "Gunns".
I had the "honor" of hiding the two of them in my car
and transporting them from hotel to venue without the fans seeing
them together. Let me pause here for a sec. Chris and Tammy respected
kayfabe and all that goes with it. It was great to see them going
to such great lengths to do that. A laughable moment was when the
WWF at the time was running Nassau Coliseum. I was working with
"Sunny" and the Smoking Gunns at the "Hooters"
across the street from Nassau. I working the auto session....that
night, Chris was teaming with "Zip" or Tom Pritchard,
against the Gunns. For more than 2 hours, poor Chris had to hide
in the kitchen at Hooters. When I went to check in on him, he was
in his workout gear doing cardio on the kitchen floor. I guess this
brings new meaning to...."The man ate up the business".
Then came the hard part...we had to sneak Chris into the car to
drive Tammy over (Gunns were taken care of). So, this is what Chris
and I did...we got some type of protective covering, and we snuck
him outside the back door near the dumpsters, I drove my car to
the back, and he spread out in my backseat...with the covering on!
I drove back to the font...fans watching for my every move (knowing
I was taking care of them), and then I escorted "Sunny"
out to the car....with fans literally all over my car trying to
get one last shot of Tammy, we seat her in the passenger seat, and
there is Chris all covered up in the backseat with all the fans
looking in...NONE THE WISER. This shows you the depth of Chris'
willingness to go above and beyond. A lot of people today can learn
from his example.
Another "happening" was when Tammy and Chris were working
an ECW Funk show, while Marty Jannetty and I were working an NWA
Coralluzzo show. It was a long day, and we were tired. Marty and
I decide to stop at the Exit 7 NJT rest stop and eat...It was pouring
rain, and something hot was welcomed. While on line at the "Bob's
Big Boy"...I hear from behind me, "Is that Bobby Riedel
I see in front of me"...ans sure enough, it was Chris. He was
being his fun, cheerful self. From there, he tells me to go to the
car and get Tammy, and the four of us just chilled out at the Bob's
Big Boy....It was surreal in a way. They were still with WWE, but
Vince let them go to respect Terry, and Marty and I were doing our
thing. The four of us spent so many nights together while doing
WWF events that we got even more closer than most. Remember the
days of the New Rockers? (Leif Cassidty/Al Snow and Marty)? Well,
we went up and down the road together numerous times during that
program. So get the picture...a REST STOP...and Chris and Tammy
are all dressed up due to the event they were part of, and here
is Marty and I sitting eating combo meals Haha!
There was another time "The Bodydonnas" and "Kloudi"
(Jimmy Shoulders) were teaming up in a match in Poughkeepsie. It
came time for an intermission...15 minutes exactly....over $600
in auto sales. Just this simple expression of love and appreciation
displayed by the fans proved... that even back then...Chris was
something special.
For the years Chris was in ECW, I didn't see him much as I was not
an ECW follower. However, Chris and I remained friends by talking
on the phone on occasion...then bumping into him at different functions
on the road. One thing about him...he never lost his drive. He battled
demons, and fought off skeptics...and he won. His zest for life,
his career, and his love for Tammy always motivated him to succeed
and do better.
When I received the call about his death early that dreadful morning,
I dealt with it my own way. I thought back to these memories and
the flood of others I can tell you. It shocked me because Chris
was so young (3 years older than me), and I was just with him last
month for 6 hours. A matter a fact, one of his very last interviews
was conducted by wrestling personality, Johnny Ova. The two spoke
about Chris' career highs and lows, embarrassing moments, regrets,
future goals, and his current position with TNA. In the interview,
he got very serious about his current role in wrestling, and thanked
Jeff Jarrett and TNA for bringing him in. This interview will be
able to be viewed on the internet very soon so you can all capture
the emotion he had when he discussed being an NWA Champion. It was
heartfelt and very surreal.
In the hours that followed his death, I called one of Chris' childhood
friends..."Kloudi" Jimmy Shoulders. he lives right down
the block from Chris' parents. He called me back with all the details
of what happened, and what his last words were. Very sad. Anyway,
as I was being told the funeral info. and fielding countless calls,
I decided that I would not give my memories until after the funeral.
Well, here I am.
On Monday afternoon, Johnny Ova and I, were invited down to the
funeral by a family friend. It was there that reality really hit.
Seeing Chris in his casket was something that I quickly wanted to
forget. I stood there with Johnny remembering all "markers"
of his life and our friendship together. I looked at all the pictures
and looked over the flowers. I was able to meet Johnny and offered
him my sincerest condolences. I was later introduced to Chris' dad.
He and I exchanged email addresses as he wanted some media I have
with Chris. Dr. Tom Pritchard and I stood in a corner in the front
of the room near the casket just talking about the legacy that Chris
would leave behind. We took that "stroll down memory lane"
and remembered the good times we had on the road. Mic Foley called
me over to his table at a Perkins restaurant across the street and
we further discussed the fact that Chris was loved and revered amongst
the great men of the industry. Mic wanted to be there for him when
others may not be able to attend. However, nothing can describe
what happened when Tammy and I spoke.
Tammy, who was obviously having a hard time with everything, found
comfort in a multitude of friends. She showed Johnny and I the tattoo
she received the night before in Chris' honor. It is a double "C"
on the back of her neck. She then went on and told us how she got
one for her father and niece as well. My heart broke for her. I
quickly responded, "Tammy, I was there fro you 14 years ago,
I am here for you now". The three of us chatted for about 30
minutes or so, and we spoke about all that Chris meant to her and
to the industry. She spoke about how he would keep the house clean
and keep her organized. She mentioned how she appreciated all the
money that is being raised due to his death, and insisted that she
stays busy. In a moment that I will always hold in high regard,
and I will carry out in Chris's honor is explained in Johnny Ova's
tribute for Chris. In a nutshell, Chris, Tammy, Johnny, and I were
JUST (like 2 weeks ago) planning to go out to eat at the Cheesecake
Factory in Long Island (This is her favorite place). We were going
back and fourth writing emails to each other about the date, and
anticipating the day it all would go down. Chris also was going
to give up his time and train privately with Johnny Ova at our wrestling
ministry training facility. What makes this special is the fact
that Johnny and Chris did not each other for a long period of time,
but Chris was willing to drive out to Long Island to get in the
ring and work with John and continue to help him excel in this sport.
The man gave his life for the sport, and then took what he received,
and blessed others with it. This is a classy move. This act alone
showed just how much Chris remained "grounded" and real
with people...rather than some guy with a massive ego. The fact
that he is gone, shortly after planning this night with him; really
brings reality to set in. He found in his his heart to bless me
with his friendship and entrust me with many things throughout our
time together. I love you Chris and Tammy....
In closing, I believe that the death of Chris will bring healing
to many people. It is always good to try and find the positive in
negative situations, and I believe that many peers and foes took
his death to heart and made amends with people that needed to hear
the words "I'm sorry. Can you forgive me". You never know
when God decides to take you home....always be ready to go.
Bobby Riedel
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When I first heard that Chris had passed, I was shocked and in
such disbelief. This is a guy I had just spoken with and hung out
with 4 weeks ago. So young, 33 years old! I knew him from the shows
we have been on, but never got as close as I did with him until
I spent the day with Tammy, Chris, and Bobby recently. I was looking
forward to hanging out again with them at the Cheesecake Factory
and training with Chris. This was actually being planned at the
time of his death. Chris was willing to chill with me, and teach
me some of what he was taught by his mentors. This guy, who I hadn't
known for a long time, showed me what it meant to be a giving person.
He was ready to give of himself for me...a guy he didn't really
even know all that long. Who does that? He and Tammy were nice enough
to let me into there private world, and I thank them for that opportunity.
I have been blessed to have gotten trained by many of the top stars
this sport...DiBiase, George Steele, and a host of others, but I
must admit; I was looking forward to my time with Chris. I looked
forward to this because I related him to me. He was a smaller guy
from my area, the odds were against him, yet he succeeded! After
speaking with him, you know wrestling was his life and passion,
and his drive kept him going until he made it. I feel the same way.
I was, and still am, mocked and looked down upon because of the
choices I made in following my heart for wrestling, my faith, and
my business...but like Chris, I never gave up. He truly is and will
remain an inspiration to others. No matter what people said, he
shook it off and went for his goal! I studied a lot of his matches,
and as a kid, grew up loving his work. His matches from back in
the day are awesome. You don't see much of that anymore. The day
I spent with Chris taught me that Chris was not like the other wrestlers.
He was something special; he was one of the good guys.
I will miss Chris, but the legacy he left in wrestling will live
on forever. I pray that his family is strengthened through this
and they keep on keeping on. Also, that God will draw them close
through the tribulations of life.
Johnny Ova
I Peter 3:15
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NWA NJ & NY Mourn Chris Candido
by: NWA
4/29/2005
It is always a sad occasion when someone whom you know passes
away. But when a brilliant flame of life such as that which burned
inside Chris Candido is extinguished so far ahead of its time, the
tragedy is even greater.
We would talk with Chris before the shows we worked together.
His life was complex at times. A variety of issues that he ultimately
conquered. Different types of pain that he lived with and overcame.
A courage that is exemplary. A commitment that was synonymous with
his excellence.
A persons greatness is not measured by position or bank
balance. It is not measured by a statue in a park or having a building
named in ones memory. Rather, it is measured by the smiles
that come to the faces of those who can reflect on the moments of
happiness and friendship they shared with you.
The theatrical world of wrestling aside, Chris Candido stood
and will stand as a giant in the memories of those who were privileged
to know him.
BANDIDO, ORLANDO & FRED
NWA NJ & NY
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The following comes courtesy of Bambi Weavil and CandidoOnline.com
C.M. PUNKS TRIBUTE TO CHRIS CANDIDO
No Amount Of Blood Was Going To Stop Me Tonight
By Dan Murphy
(From PWI, October 2005: On Sale August 9)
C.M. Punks First singles match with Chris Candido was supposed
to take place during the first week of January 2005 for IWA Mid-South.
Both Punk and Candido had been looking forward to that bout. They
had squared off several times before in tag team and three-way matches
and were eager to step into the ring for a one-on-one showdown.
For Candido, it was to be another step back in a long personal comeback
after his career was nearly derailed by drug abuse and other personal
demons, a match against a fellow student of the game who was making
a name for himself by wrestling intense one-hour contests. For Punk,
it was a chance to face a wrestler he grew up watching and admiringall
the way back to Candidos days in Jim Cornettes Smoky
Mountain Wrestling more than a decade ago. For both men, it was
something of a dream match. Each saw a little of himself in the
other.
But the match never happened. For a variety of reasons, that one-on-one
encounter had to be rescheduled four times. It had finally been
setthey thoughtfor May 6, but then it had to be postponed
once again when Candido suffered a broken leg at TNAs Lockdown
pay-per-view on April 24.
I talked to Chris on the phone in the hospital after he broke
his leg, and he was still talking about going through with the match,
Punk said. I told him to get his rest and heal up, and that
there was plenty of time to have our singles match.
Candidos sudden death stunned the wrestling community. He
died on April 28 from a blood clot following complications from
surgery on the leg, eight days before that scheduled singles match
with Punk. Candidos passing weighed heavily on Punks
mind on May 7, as he prepared to face Jimmy Rave in a dog-collar
match for Ring of Honor.
While Punks desire to wrestle Candido stemmed from deep-seated
respect, the roots of his match against Rave were steeped in revenge
and hatred. The last time they had clashed, Rave had humiliated
Punk in his hometown of Chicago, blinding him with bug spray, wrapping
a chain around his neck, and hanging him over the ring ropes. Punk
had demanded the dog-collar match to ensure Rave couldnt run
and hide behind two other members of The Embassy, Prince Nana and
Fast Eddie.
The match was held in the Grand Ballroom of Manhattans New
Yorker HotelROHs grand debut in the Big Appleand
the card opened with a somber 10-bell salute to Candido. When it
was time for the dog-collar match, Punk emerged from the locker
room wearing a Candido T-shirt and flashed Candidos old ECW
Triple Threat hand signal on his way to the ring.
Rave and Nana tried to pull a bait-and-switch, as Rave feigned
a stomach illness and tried to get Punk to agree to face Mike Kruel
as a substitute, but Punk saw through the diversion and caught Rave
as he attempted to sneak-attack the Second City Saint. Punk and
Rave tumbled to the floor, with Punk brutalizing Rave with the chain
all over the ringside area. But Rave turned the match in his favor
by using the chain to pull Punk face-first into a steel cornerpost,
opening a horrific gash on Punks forehead. Within minutes,
blood was pouring down Punks face, turning his blond hair
a sickening shade of crimson.
I was bleeding like a pig, Punk said as he received
medical attention in the locker room after the match. It was
sort of surreal. I remember laughing at one point because there
was just blood everywhere. I had never seen so much blood, and it
was my own.
But even in the midst of the carnage, Punk couldnt get Candido
out of his mind.
I wanted to dedicate that match to Chris, and no amount of
blood was going to stop me tonight. No matter what happened, I wanted
the match to go on, and it did.
Punk endured a savage beating from Rave and somehow managed to
come back, flooring Rave with a pair of stiff power bombs onto the
chain. Sensing defeat, Prince Nana ordered The Embassy into the
ring, but Punk battled back valiantly. Unfortunately, the numbers
game proved to be too much for Punk, who had lost pints of plasma
and was reeling on legs that must have felt like angel hair pasta.
Rave took full advantage of the interference and the no-DQ rules
of the dog-collar match by grabbing a chair and smashing it into
Punks skull with a nauseating thud. Several times, Rave brought
the steel chair crashing into Punks head as he slumped helplessly
on the mat. Finally, Rave made the cover and scored the win. Incredibly,
The Embassy tried to attack Punk more after the match, only to be
run off by a contingent of ROH fan favorites led by Punks
tag team partner, Colt Cabana.
Somehow, Punk struggled to his feet and acknowledged the crowd
through a veil of blood, earning a standing ovation from the ROH
faithful. Some fans were saying Punks performance was reminiscent
of Mick Foley, a comparison Punk would respectfully accept. But
on this particular night, he was honoring another hardcore hero
who was even closer to his heart.
Somewhere, Chris Candido was smiling down on him.
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4/28/2008
Whew. I've really never spoken publically regarding Chris' death.
I referred to Chris as my brother from another mother. He's the
brother I always wanted. My time spent with Tammy & Chris on
the road, working shows, practically living with them (with my husband
always wondering if I was ever going to come home!) I will cherish
forever.
I don't really like speaking about this because I want Tammy to
be able to move on with her life & not have to live with the
constant reminder. Tammy was truly devastated.
Regretably, I did not attend Chris' funeral. I just didn't want
to deal with all the fans. Chris' family did what they thought was
appropriate though wrestlers become family & I really wasn't
ready to mourn with a ton of fans in attendance. Yes, the fans certainly
had the right to mourn Chris' death, I just wish there had been
something seperate for the workers.
I do have some photos of Chris if you would like them. They are
currently up on my myspace page (www.myspace.com/traciitaylor)
if you want to check them out. Just take them if you like. I'm sure
I have more lost on my computer somewhere. I'll try to dig them
up for you.
Chris and Tammy did take me under their wing, I learned so much
from them both & had a blast while doing it. Who could have
asked to have learned from anyone better?
Chris stories. Wow. Well, fond memories of Chris & I staying
up until we passed out watching wrestling tapes over & over
again. I've said before that Chris ate, slept & breathed wrestling,
& he truly did. We would make peanut butter & jelly sandwiches
& fall asleep in chairs in front of the TV not remembering what
tape we fell asleep to. Tammy would get mad at us because there
would be peanut butter & jelly on the carpet in the morning.
I remember blaming Chris, saying how the mess was in front of his
chair (it was!). She never stayed angry for long though. Tam fell
asleep one night on the floor in front of the TV (she had seen all
these tapes a gazillion times) then a tape we were watching had
started with their entrance music (AC/DC). This was so funny, Tammy
woke up out of a dead sleep sat straight up & said something
like "We're on! We have to get out to the ring!" OMG,
Chris & I laughed our asses off!
I first started becoming close with Chris & Tammy working on
a photo shoot. While we were all having dinner at the hotel's restaurant
it was just Chris with a bunch of women. Chris started acting like
a pimp & I just fed into it. I remember them serving this incredible
lemon bread & I loudly but in a timid voice would ask Chris
if I could please be allowed to have another piece of bread. Chris,
very loudly would say "No bitch! You've already had too much
bread, how can I sell your ass with you getting too fat!!! Of course
we were getting stared at from the other patrons in the restaurant
but that was the idea. It was really tough to not laugh & to
try to keep up the gimmick.
After a week of photo shoot hell Tammy & Chris asked me if I
wanted to go get dinner. That was the beginning of endless TGI Fridays,
Applebees, etc., Waffle Houses, Cracker Barrel's, etc. Tammy got
me hooked on French Onion soup, & I would always order a large
steak so that Chris didn't have to order 2 dinners, he just ate
what I didn't eat. We would always ask for the crayons & stuff
so Chris could color. Whatever he ordered to drink he wanted a fake
fish in it. I don't remember the restaurant that had these drinks
but for some reason he really liked that fish in his drink. :) I
think at some other restaurant a waitress actually put some Swedish
fish in his drink for him. Oh man! Then there was the time when
we ate dinner & Chris was only wearing a towel around his waste!
I just remembered that.
Of course it was always who could get to the waitress first to play
the "Hey, it's my friend's birthday today" rib. Yeah,
I caught on to that one fast!
The name game. We always played the wrestler's name game on the
road. If Tam or I would come up with a name of someone in the business
that Chris didn't think was a good worker then it didn't count.
:)
I remember working in PA (in the middle of nowhere then we had to
head up to Altoona) on Easter weekend. At one of the shows they
had a bunch of the girls make these weird Easter bonnets. These
girls really put a lot of work into these things. They had a "parade"
where the girls walked around with their bonnets & someone won
for the best one. Out of nowhere Chris decided to jump in the ring,
he took a bonnet from one of the girls, put it on and started parading
around with this thing on his head. He was always doing stuff like
that. The girl got really mad at him, grabbed the bonnet from his
head and started hitting him with it! Chris just worked it, he stole
the bonnet back and stomped on it. Funny shit.
We had to make our way back from Altoona driving all night long
to make it to my husband's grandma's house for dinner. My husband's
grandma fell in love with Chris! No one had EVER seen her act this
way! She just loved him! Fawning all over him & everything!
The whole family sat down & had a traditional Polish dinner.
"Bochi" passed away in December 07 but Chris's autographed
8x10 is still on the fridge door. :) Tammy & Chris got to eat
a homecooked meal on a holiday which never happened because they
were always working on holidays.
I have many more memories, I think this is all I would like to share
at the moment though. I'm getting a bit bummed & I don't really
want to go any lower. I'd rather not dwell on the sadness. Tammy
is on my mind today, hoping she isn't having a horrid day. I love
ya girl.
~Tracii~
Here are the pics from Tracii's MySpace Page. Thank you to Tracii
for sharing them, and her memories with us.
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